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You’re searching for relationship advice.  It would be nice if you could find a place that had all the answers.  Unfortunately this is learn as you go.  Sometimes it's easy and sometimes it can be much harder.  It's ironic but the harder the lesson the more we learn.

  I want to give you a boost and help you achieve what it has taken me a long time to understand.  If saving your marriage is your priority please listen closely.  First you need to understand that what your spouse is going through is as real as what you are experiencing. 

I know your thinking why are they're hurting me!  I know you are in real pain.  But if you want your marriage to go in a different direction, please listen.


Once you start to understand that they're hurting also, you will start to develop compassion.  This is where the relationship advice I give can help you turn the corner, and go in a different direction.

 You'll need to try to see things through their eyes, it won't be easy, but you can do it.

 

If you are successful, you will build trust in marriage once again.


There's no need to tell them what you're trying to do, just do it. Believe it or not, even if you're separated you're still so closely connected, any changes you make will be noticed.


Most of the time couples can never see the other person's point of view, this is why marriages fail.

  If you want to know how to save a marriage, you need to learn this right away. 



I will continue to post new information on this website.  But your questions are very important to me, with your help, I will keep working to give good relationship advice.

Keep this in mind, if you've been trying to make a relationship work, and nothing you've been doing has been getting that job done. Change what you're doing. Repeating the same thing over and over will not change your direction. Try something new, and if it works, stick with it. But if you're not getting the results you're expecting. Stop doing it!

 







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The separation survival guide

Over the last few years I've been working on this website, trying to help people using my own history. What I've found is many people are either at the point of separation or just separated from their spouses. Separation Rules is one of the main pages people go to. So I decided to make a guide, something that will help you figure things out a little faster.

I wanted to make it very affordable so anybody who needed my help would be able to purchase it. The small purchase price of 20 dollars will help me keep the website up and running. I hope that you have benefited from my own personal journey. I think you will be even more satisfied with the separation survival guide.

Thank you again for helping out, sincerely your friend Ira