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Marriage Sex Will Return,
the answers are right in front of you.

I know marriage sex is a very important topic, especially if you're a guy.  What starts out as something that happens daily.  Usually dwindles to maybe once or twice a month.  Sometimes it can  stop altogether, the big question is why.  Why does this happen,  There can be many reasons for this of course.

   

When we first meet there is a chemical reaction that happens.  But over time, the chemical wears out.  That was nature's gift to us, a jumpstart.  Now it's time for us to keep the fire burning.  I know,  you're thinking, how can I do that?  It's not by buying flowers and cards, although those things can help.  It’s more about being the person that your partner will want to have sex with.

This will be different with every couple, for some it might be doing an extra share of work around the house,  helping the kids with their homework. Little things can mean so much,but sometimes we get caught up in not having sex. We forget to do the things that will  create that spark.

 

If your spouse is complaining about something , take note.  That's a very good place to start. You mustn't do things  just to get sex.  This would definitely be counterproductive, it must be genuine, not faked.

 

Be very careful don't make your spouse feel guilty.  My wife had told me once; that sex started to feel like her job, don't let this happened to you.  Marriage sex like any other sex should be mutual.  Both parties should take something from it. Understand that they have feelings and there is something wrong.

 

I have to believe that if you're reading this article, your marriage is in jeopardy.  If marriage sex is lacking in your relationship don't automatically assume that your spouse is cheating.  If you are not cheating, they're probably not either .  Thinking like that will only cause you to become overemotional, instead tried to do little things to bring back the spark.

 

You'd be surprised at how little things like opening a car door or carrying the in the house groceries can do.  If you're female, a man's ego is the center of his sexual soul.  Boost his ego and you'll boost his sex drive.  Nobody has to know what you're trying.  Just try it,  and if it doesn't work right away, don't fret .  Sometimes these things take a little time.

 

It's very important to keep a happy go lucky attitude.  Don't worry about the little things that are not important.  Treat your spouse well and marital sex will return.  Start slow, holding hands is a good way.  Don't push it, be the turtle and win the race.  When you find something that works remember it.

 

It took you a very long time to get to this point, don't think you can turn it around in a day or even a week.   Keep expectations low,  if you  get disappointed you'll get frustrated and want to quit, or worse you might sabotage your efforts.

 

I hope this information helps you, if you have questions please ask me.  I would like to make this the best website I possibly can, in hopes to help families stay together.  This is something  I don't believe I can do alone. 






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Thank you again for helping out, sincerely your friend Ira